I have come to realization in my marriage that for it to work I will always be the one to make concessions. I have stepped up in almost every way possible in our marriage and she is still unhappy. I MEAN HELL!! Now she complains that I don't come to major decisions fast enough. This is code for "I miss my Sir and I really want to talk to him". I can't think of a time in our marriage where she was that into me. How do I handle the emotions I have about a wife who needs other people to stay married to one? Self worth has quickly become a prevalent issue in my life right now.